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Meaning of Friendship

Sometimes I question the meaning of a true friend? All through out life we go through many friends. Some friends we don’t have anymore and some we have yet to meet.

I feel like we all get caught up in this wanna be popular, glamour, like reality TV stars world that we forget how to live the simple things in life and appreciate them.

I am 24 years old and I noticed some people who are my age or close to my age could do some discovering on the meaning of friendship and what friends are meant for in life. Of course, drama will never go away, we all will be upset, we all will get mad. Simply put, we are not perfect and no one is meant to be perfect.

With all the down times there may be, the good times will always make up for them as long as you remember the meaning of friends. There are a lot of selfish people in this world that do not seem to recognize the good there is, because they simply push away the good. If they keep doing that then what will they do when they finally realize they need those good people in their life again?

Learn to treat people the way you wish to be treated. If you know you will need someone in the near future then learn to need them all the time. If you just put people as an option then you will never have them for priority.

So what is the meaning of friendship? Are friends just people or are they our priorities?

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When my dreams come true…

It was said once on One Tree Hill:  “When all your dreams come true, who is standing next to you?”

It is starting to hit me that I am at the age where I am entering the real world.  A majority of my friends that I grew up with in Lincoln are graduating college and getting jobs else where.  I have a number of friends that I have met in college that are graduating and moving back to home states.  Yes, it is depressing.  Have I cried about it: YES.

I don’t think that people ever grow apart from each other, we all just learn that some point in life we grow and begin the rest of our lives.  When my friends and I graduated high school there were some of us that stayed here in Lincoln and others that went to out of state schools.  However, the one thing that kept us together was coming back home to Lincoln.  Now all I am hoping for is that the University of Nebraska brings my college friends coming back to visit.

I am learning that this is not goodbye; this is see ya later because we are all going on to do bigger and better things with our lives.  It is our time now to change the world for the better and make a difference while we are at it.  It is our time to grow up, get married, have children, buy a house and operate a family.

I just pray that I do not lose connection with all my friends.  I want them to be by my side when all my dreams really do come true.

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